How Can I Be Lonely?

“How Can I Be Lonely?” was written by Haldor Lillenas in 1926 and reflects the believer’s assurance of Christ’s abiding presence. The hymn is built upon the promise Jesus gave in Matthew 28:20, that He will never leave His children but remain with them always. The text contrasts the natural loneliness of earthly life with the unshakable companionship found in the Lord. It acknowledges the struggles, uncertainties, and moments of sorrow that may come, yet it celebrates the truth that no believer is ever truly alone, for Christ is a faithful friend who never departs.

The lyrics of this hymn follow a devotional tone, encouraging believers to trust in the constant nearness of the Savior. Instead of dwelling on solitude or despair, the hymn lifts the heart in gratitude and faith, declaring that the presence of Jesus brings joy, peace, and courage to endure trials. The refrain emphasizes this truth with an almost conversational warmth, asking how loneliness is possible when Christ Himself is the companion who walks every step of the journey.

For congregations and individuals alike, “How Can I Be Lonely?” has been a source of comfort in times of grief, trial, or uncertainty. Its message has resonated across generations, particularly in revival meetings, camp gatherings, and personal devotion, where the assurance of Christ’s nearness offers strength and hope. Through this hymn, Lillenas reminds every Christian that the deepest needs of the heart are met in Jesus, whose presence turns solitude into fellowship and sorrow into joy.